Friday 30 December 2011

Thursday 29 December 2011

The Gift that keeps on Giving (Head)

Originally posted HERE.


I've encountered only one man in my life who would pass up a blow job. To this day, I believe him to be part of a small minority who genuinely don't care for the sensation of a pair of soft lips and a warm, wet tongue on their most erogenous zone. There are other men who think they don't like blow jobs but in fact have never dared to tell her how it ought to be done, and so they feign complete indifference to oral stimulation full stop. It saddens me to think of both her wasted time and effort and the fact that these men are missing out on what should be one of the most pleasurable experiences they can have at the hands (and mouths) of better educated women.
Educating your other half about these matters doesn't stop at technique. A shocking number of women refuse to give head at all, depriving their men because of a misguided belief that performing blow jobs makes them "sluts". Once again, I blame porn for the poorest portrayal of oral sex, not only in terms of action (furious up-and-down sucking and rubbing from start to laborious finish) but also for its depiction of Barbie-doll female protagonists as sex slaves with no will of their own. The sooner men and women sever the imaginary link between low-end screen sex and real life, the sooner they'll be truly liberated and won't feel cheap about pleasing each other and, ultimately, themselves.



One thing most men have in common is their love of giving head to a woman. More fascinating are the reasons why they love it. Putting aside the obvious - intense levels of intimacy and the fact that you're giving your woman a great time - there is an element of control involved in going down, that you can't help but be tempted by. Her body and climax are, effectively, at your command. If men recognise that they are exerting control over a woman when they give head, why should a woman feel subservient and enslaved when they take a man into their mouth? Why they don't see giving head in a more positive way is a mystery to me. My advice is that if she's reluctant, help her understand. Make sure she realises just how easily she can turn you on.

To me, there is nothing more satisfying than giving and receiving the kind of oral sex that happens spontaneously. Not because anyone has asked to receive and not because anyone feels pressured to give, but because (and this is the key) it turns the giver on as much as the receiver. When I give my man a blow job, by the time he's moaning and encouraging me to quicken the pace as he nears climax, I am so wet I could float Roman Abramovich's yacht. Why? Because I know that I have just brought him to this point with my mouth, with my technique and, most significantly, with my free will.

Then of course, there's the sweet anticipation of what I can expect if I time things correctly. I know that if I stop just shy of him climaxing, he will flip me over and push into me so hard, that I will barely be able to breathe. He'll be so enraptured by the sensations I give him that he'll worship me. It won't be power-driven sex; it will be gorgeous, desperate yet considerate sex. Your woman should know that you'll be aching to make her feel as good as she made you feel and if that's not enough reason to get excited about giving head, nothing is.

Counter her assumption that it will all be over once you come by assuring her that it's an intense part of foreplay. Sadly, some women are cynical about a man's bedside manners and will assume that if a blow job takes you to climax, then it's game over and she won't get any more attention. Encourage her to adopt a soixante-neuf position so she doesn't feel like she's missing out. Do whatever you can to prove to her that a blow job is not a favour, but a whole lot of fun. This might also involve a bit of confidence-building, because reluctance to give head often stems from lack of experience and fear of getting it wrong. Women know how they like it, so do men, and unless you're an adolescent boy, there definitely is such a thing as a bad blow job.

The answer? Communication. There's no better alternative to telling her exactly how you like it, in the most constructive and arousing way possible. No one responds positively to a step-by-step guide, but once she's in position, tell her when she's getting it right. If her tongue fleetingly dancing over the head of your cock feels divine, then ask for more. Tell her to keep doing it while she guides you in and out of her mouth. If you need a firm hand around the base of your cock as she applies sucking pressure to the shaft, then take her hand and, with yours over hers, show her how hard and how fast you like it. A man who knows what he wants is a huge turn-on, and hand-on-hand contact is tactile and appealing to her.

What a woman never wants to feel is intimidated. A blow job can easily turn into a power battle if you approach it in the wrong way. While one woman will get off on kneeling in front of you, it will deeply offend another, to the point where your cock will never near her mouth again. Find out her preference for spitting or swallowing and respect it without question - one day you might be pleasantly surprised, but the choice is always hers. To maintain an equilibrium until you've established her oral boundaries, lie down but elevate your head slightly so you can see, have her face you and straddle your legs - in this position she can set the pace and make eye contact with you. I don't need to explain to you why this makes all the difference, but make sure it's clear to her. The intensity created by her looking into your eyes as she gives you head is electrifying, for her and you. She'll gauge how much you're enjoying everything she's doing and she'll love the expressions of pleasure on your face when she gets it blissfully right.

If she goes straight in for the kill by forcing your cock as far down her throat as possible, her head bobbing up and down like a nodding dog, slow her right down. Ask her to alternate long, feather-light tongue strokes (especially on the tip and the underside), with strong sucking motions, accompanied by a hand near the base and some attention to your balls. Variation will ensure that she won't get lock jaw, you won't get bored and you'll experience a whole array of delicious sensations. Talk to her and encourage the techniques you enjoy with some moans of pleasure and a hand in her hair, gently pulling her head in closer. Only when you're ready to orgasm should you let her build strong, uninterrupted, rhythmic motions - don't be afraid to take it right to the end on occasion. Because make no mistake, it's a feeling of triumph when a man orgasms after some well-performed oral. Who wouldn't feel smug about that?

Wednesday 28 December 2011

Shannon loves Cock too!

We found this video of Shannon dressed in a sexy Christmas outfit and sucking a cock .. and loving it.

We have decided that "Video of the Week" will also become a regular posting in 2012 .. so if you have some sexy Cock related video's, please do send them in to us!

Tuesday 27 December 2011

Demystifying Men’s Sexual Health

Originally posted HERE.
We may be living in a time when people speak openly about many topics, but there is still one that remains a taboo in many Asian countries: men’s sexual health (which includes the quality of a man’s erection and erectile dysfunction).
“This is true,” University Malaya Medical Centre consultant urologist Associate Professor Dr Ong Teng Aik says. “But more men are talking to us today than they did 10 years ago. And they tell me so many cerita dongeng (fairy tales).”
Amused, he recalls the story of a man who was certain that his entire sexual experience lasted hours. Challenged, he decided to use a stopwatch to time himself.
“When it was all over, he looked at the watch and, aiyah,” says Dr Ong, throwing his hands in the air. “The whole thing lasted less than five minutes!”
On a more serious note, erectile dysfunction (ED) is defined by the extent to which a man can achieve and/or maintain sufficient erection hardness for a satisfying sexual experience.
There are three main groups of men that Dr Ong treats. The first consists of men who suffer from chronic diseases like diabetes, hypertension and cardiovascular disease. Then there are those who have undergone surgery like radical prostatectomy or radiation therapy. The third comprises patients who have met with accidents and suffer from injuries to their pelvic region.
The Erection Hardness Scale (EHS) measures the standard for erection hardness and can be explained as follows:
-     Grade 1 (Severe ED): Penis is large but not hard.
-     Grade 2 (Moderate ED): Penis is hard but not hard enough for penetration.
-     Grade 3 (Suboptimal Erection): Penis is hard enough for penetration but not completely hard.
-     Grade 4 (Optimal Erection): Penis is completely hard and fully rigid.

Dr Ong illustrates the structure of the organ in the following way: “Take a cup and a straw. Imagine the femoral artery (which supplies blood to the leg) is the cup and the penile artery (which supplies blood to the penis) is the straw. Can you understand just how small the penile artery is in relation to the femoral artery? So, when a man leads an unhealthy lifestyle, one of the first arteries to become clogged up will be this penile artery. That means when a man suffers from ED, it is possible that this is an early manifestation of cardiovascular disease as the blood supply to the artery is impaired.”
Signs of ED can occur up to three years before cardiovascular disease is evident.
Professor Dr Low Wah Yun, professor of Psychology at University Malaya, says the problem is further compounded when men are reluctant to discuss the matter with a doctor.
She says: “They’ll go to the doctor and spend 20 minutes telling him all their problems from diabetes and hypertension to work stress or family issues. Then, as they are leaving the clinic, with one hand on the door knob, they’ll turn round and say, ‘By the way, doctor, I have this problem...’.”
Concurring, Dr Ong adds: “We would like to see more doctors initiating conversations with their patients about erectile function rather than waiting for the patient to do so.”
They both insist that treatment does not include taking traditional medicine. Low explains: “When they take these alternative medicines, there is no scientific proof that these work. Instead, their overall well-being increases. Naturally, when a man feels better, he’ll perform better as well.”
One of the worst lifestyle habits that contributes to ED is smoking. Low says: “When we tell them to stop smoking, they don’t bother. In fact, in one study, they found that putting the words ‘smoking causes cancer’ on the cigarette packet had no effect on sales. But, when they put ‘smoking causes erectile dysfunction’, they found the number of people who smoked decreased.”
But how do you know which doctor to discuss this matter with? Low shares a useful tip: If you see pamphlets about ED in the waiting room of a doctor’s clinic, you will know that this doctor treats this condition. In any event, even if your
GP cannot help you, he will be able to refer you to a doctor who can.
Sometimes, the reason for ED is not necessarily medical in nature. Low says: “Both parties in a relationship play a role in sexual dysfunction. I often say that relationship problems can lead to sexual problems and vice versa.”
Either way, both of them have found that one of the best ways to treat ED is to approach the woman in the relationship. Surprisingly, she is able to coax a man who refuses to seek treatment on his own, to visit the doctor.
This approach, the healthcare professionals say, underlies another message they are trying to impart: That there must be mutual respect between both parties in a relationship.
“The majority of men today are no longer interested in their own satisfaction. They are now interested in whether their partners are deriving pleasure as well,” says Low. “When a man’s emotional and psychological needs are fulfilled, he has a better self-image and confidence of himself. With a fulfilling sexual intimacy, his partner also feels more loved.”
Therefore, men should seek help early and not suffer in silence when they suspect that they may be suffering from ED. This is because the ability to maintain an erection to the end of intercourse is probably one of the most important aspects of achieving ultimate intimacy.
Says Low, “while the frequency of sexual activity may or may not decrease with age, for as long as you’re healthy you can still have sexual function”.
Being fit improves sexual health in many ways:
- Blood circulation improves and therefore, maintains vitality in men.
- Both stress and anxiety are reduced, which have a positive effect on a man’s sexual desire,
thereby, promoting optimal sexual well-being.

- Adrenal function is improved, leading to men having higher testosterone levels and an increased sexual drive.
- A man’s energy levels and endurance increase allowing him to maintain an erection for a longer time.
- A man’s self-esteem improves, which helps him maintain a healthy body image.

Sunday 25 December 2011

5 Interesting Facts That Will Help You Know Your Penis Better

Originally posted HERE.


Rediscover your penis by learning more about it. This article reveals some interesting facts about your penis that have been revealed by medical experts. Men and even women will find this article interesting as well as informative.
1. Your penis has a mind
Urologists opine that your penis has a mind as well. You know, your penis does not always listen to you. For instance, at time you get erection when it may not be appropriate. Similarly, you get erections even while you are asleep and might not necessarily be dreaming about sex. Heavy lifting or straining to have a bowel movement can also cause an erection. Even sexual arousal usually is not voluntary. The conscious mind does play a role but a lot of sexual arousal goes on in the sympathetic nervous system. Moreover, your penis may also shrink without your consent. For instance, exposure to cold water or air makes your penis shrink. Now, this is again the doing of the sympathetic nervous system. You certainly do not wish your penis to be shrunk.
This means you have less command over your penis than other body parts like your arms and legs. Your penis does not react on your commands but it answers the reflexes received from the nervous system which is not always under your conscious control.
2. Your penis may be a grower or a show-er
Though these are not medical terms and aren't scientifically established, men still place a lot of significance to this aspect of the penis. Your penis will be labelled as just a show-er if it doesn't gain much length with an erection. On the other hand, a penis that gains a lot of length with an erection is said to be a "grower." In a study conducted on 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely in men, from less than a quarter inch to 3.5 inches longer.
An analysis of more than 1000 measurements taken by a sex researcher shows that shorter flaccid penises tend to gain about twice as much length as longer flaccid penises. The data also showed that most penises aren't extreme show-ers or growers. In fact, about 12% of penises gained one-third or less of their total length with an erection and only about 7% penises doubled in length when erect.
3. Your penis is shaped like a boomerang
Researches, who have studied men and women having sex inside an MRI scanner, say that the penis is shaped like a boomerang. You may not be aware of this because just like a tree which has roots inside the soil, your penis is tucked up inside your pelvis and attached to your pubic bone through suspensory ligaments. These ligaments also serve the function of making an erection sturdy.
4. Your penis can get broken
Even though there is no "penis bone," you can break your penis if you do not use it cautiously. Once you suffer from a penile fracture, you may experience a terrible pain and hear a pop or snap and your penis turns black and blue. Penile fracture is rare and is mainly reported in younger men because their erections tend to be quite rigid. You may get a penile fracture if you thrust too hard and fast during sex and your penis slams into your partner's pubic bone. Also, your penis may get broken if your partner moves wildly while on top of you.
Older men may suffer from a related condition called Peyronie's syndrome. This is when your penis bends too much a certain way during sex, small tears in the tissue can form scars and the accumulated scar tissue gives the penis an abnormally curved shape. Therefore, you should never use your penis too roughly.
5. Most penises in world are uncut
Only 30% of males aged 15 and up are circumcised, this was estimated in a report conducted by the World Health Organization (WHO) and the Joint United Nations Programme on HIV/AIDS (UNAIDS).
About 70% of all circumcised males in the world are Jewish and Muslim. The United States has the highest proportion of males circumcised for non-religious reasons. A whopping 75% of non-Jewish, non-Muslim American men are circumcised. The CDC estimates that about 65% of all newborn boys are circumcised in the US. While in Canada, only 30% males are. In the UK, it's 20% and in Australia it's merely 6%.
The practice of circumcising baby boys for medical and cosmetic reasons has become controversial in the US. But recently the WHO and the UNAIDS recommended circumcision for adult men, based upon evidence that men with circumcised penises have a lower risk of being infected with HIV.

Friday 23 December 2011

5 Fun Ways to Masturbate

Originally posted HERE.
You may think you know how to masturbate, but you have no idea. Every guy's method for beating the bishop or choking the chicken will differ just a little bit from everyone else's, naturally. But, all that's really required is the right kind of friction in just the right spot. Once a man has committed to a masturbation technique of his own, his form pretty much stays the same for his whole life. And yet, it doesn't have to be that way.
Every guy should know at least five fun ways to masturbate. Sure, the normal five knuckle shuffle is fun and all, but a little variation is good for everybody. There really can be too much of a good thing so it is best to switch things up occasionally to keep things fresh and exciting. Here are five fun ways to masturbate to make the most out of your alone time.

1. The Stranger. Quite possibly the most famous masturbation technique of all, The Stranger has earned it's reputation. The one drawback that many see in masturbation is that it is generally a solo activity. It is always better to have an attractive lady friend help you out. As stated earlier, masturbation is tricking your penis into thinking a vagina is around. The Stranger simply takes that trickery one step further. You sit on the hand you plan on using until it is numb. When you lose sensation in that hand feel free to go to town. It feels like somebody else is taking care of you.

2. The Endless Vagina. The act of masturbating is basically simulating a vagina. The Endless Vagina is simulating a vagina that never ends. Fairly self explanatory. The Endless Vagina is achieved by making a fist with one hand and sliding it down over the penis. When the head of the penis emerges slide the other hand down. Rinse and repeat until desired results are achieved.

3. Hot Meat Sandwich. This one is pretty simple. Basically, your stomach and one of your hands will be the bread and you fill this sandwich with your sausage. Rub your hand against your penis for the friction. See, friction equals heat. These names totally make sense. This sandwich definitely beats those egg salad sandwiches they sell in gas stations, just remember to keep some napkins on hand. This is a Hot Meat Sandwich, not a Sloppy Joe.
4. The Lefty. This is really only The Lefty if you are right-handed, if you are left-handed it is The Righty. If you are ambidextrous then instead of five fun ways to masturbate you get four. The idea behind The Lefty is to masturbate using your non-dominant hand. This simply switches things up from the normal routine for a different feel. Your off hand will produce a different pressure, speed and pulling direction. It also helps to keep your dominant hand from developing the aforementioned calluses, so it is basically a win win scenario.
5. Rosy Palms AKA Sandpaper. While the name Sandpaper may cause a little trepidation, this technique is one of the five fun ways to masturbate. The premise is simple, grip the penis with one hand and rub the head of the penis with the palm of the other hand. It's really only Sandpaper when the hands used are calloused, so be careful how often you have your personal time.

Wednesday 21 December 2011

5 Inspiring Religions That Worship Penises

Originally posted HERE.
Some articles demand a profound introduction. Others ... not so much. If we were a different website we might use this space to talk about how America is the biggest penis-worshiping-religion of them all. But we're not that website (in case yesterday's bowl of penises didn't tip you off). We assure you, this is no metaphor. You will find no pop psychology or vaguely phallic imagery in this article. These are religions that worship human penises. Learn from them.
#5.
 
The Lingam
The Lingam is the symbol of a very special part of the Hindu god Shiva's body. (Hint: It's his cock.) Within the trinity of Hinduism, Shiva is the god of destruction and change. How much of that destruction is wrought with his four arms and how much comes from his manhood? We leave that to the reader to decide.
In Hindu mythology, when Shiva is killed, the goddess Kali squats over his body, rips out and eats his organs, and then mounts his still erect manrod to complete the cycle of creation. It's also worth noting that in most Hindu art and temples, his "linga" is usually depicted without the rest of him, the disembodied member being worshiped all by itself:
The object in the foreground is a "yoni" (literally: vagina) and they are most often shown together, in full penetration:
How Big Is It?
Huge. Out of a billion or so Hindus in the world, about 100 million belong to various sects that focus on Shiva, Kali and the giant Lingam.
On Your Knees:
Worshiping the linga is pretty straightforward. First, you have to make it wet, either by pouring water or milk over it. Then just say your prayers and meditate. Smaller, pocket-sized lingas should be held in the hand and rubbed while meditating, and you're well on your way to a religious experience.
#4.
 
Mara Kannon Shrine, Tawarayama Japan
According to legend, about 450 years ago two local politicians in Tawarayama had such a hate-on for each other that eventually the feud came to death threats. In order to protect his family, a Mr. Oji disguised his son as a girl and hid him in the local shrine. Eventually the other guy, Mr. Sue, found the boy, cut off his head, and to prove his identity (a head isn't enough?) also severed the boy's penis.
Hearing about the killing, the locals immediately took to making wood and ceramic phalluses, to replace the boy's missing member (at this point, you have to wonder if the boy would have benefited more from a prosthetic head, but back to the story). Discovering the joy of making cocks, the locals just never stopped, eventually getting into a cock arms race with each other. Today, the woods surrounding the shrine are forested with as many stone boners as trees, all pointing gloriously up to the heavens above.

How Big Is It?
Quite respectable, thank you very much. The shrine sees thousands of visitors each year. Mostly tourists, they come from nearly every country to see the forest o' phalli, some of which stand five feet tall. The shrine is a popular destination for men suffering from erectile problems, and is even more popular with their wives.
On Your Knees:
In addition to the usual Shinto ceremony of bowing and praying, worshipers can buy smaller--and by smaller we mean life-sized--ceramic dongs to place in the shrine as an offering. After many years and thousands of visitors, the shrine is currently overflowing with them. Also, for best results, be sure to write your prayers and wishes on your cock.
Now, see if you can guess which country made our list twice.
Give up?
#3.
 
Hounen Fertility Festival, Komaki, Japan
Most historians agree that fertility and phallus worship existed in prehistoric central and Eastern Asia, influencing the pre-Buddhist and pre-Shinto religions of the area. The Hounen Fertility Festival has been going for so long in Komaki that no one really remembers why they do it. But boy do they do it.
How Big Is It?
Try 9-feet-long and 620 pounds, baby.
Who's a bright shining superstar now, Diggler?
On Your Knees:
Get there early every March 15. The main event starts at 2PM, but they start giving away free booze at 10AM. That's right, they start tapping barrels full of sake even before lunch. Then at 2PM, the crowd staggers to the Shinmei Shrine where the mega dong is kept.

Shinto preists then give blessings to the wavering crowd, mount the thing on their shoulders, and everyone starts down the street. When they reach the Tagata Jinja shrine, they spin the giant cock around in circles over their heads, threatening all around with 360 degrees of mega penetration. At about 4PM they place the cock in its new home, and pray for a fruitful year. And while you're at the Tagata Jinja Shrine, don't forget to rub the sacred balls for good luck:
#2.
 
Min, Egyptian God
Min was an ancient Egyptian god of fertility. In Egyptian art and statues, Min is always shown holding his cock with his left hand and a threshing flail in his raised right hand. A flail, in case you're wondering, is a kind of whip used to separate grain, or judging from the erection, to beat the shit out of some particularly adventurous woman who's been naughty and needs to be punished.
Min rose to prominence during the Middle Kingdom era, about 2050 BC, and by the New Kingdom era (1550 BC) he was the central figure in the Coronation Ceremony of every new Pharaoh. This involved a ritual in which the new Pharaoh would prove that he could ejaculate, and Min was there to make sure the King wasn't shooting blanks. We're not sure what the punishment was if the King couldn't fire one off, and we don't want to know.
How Big Is It?
You know, some things are more important than size. Centuries ago Egypt converted to Islam, with a few Christians and Jews thrown in, so no one really follows Min's cock anymore. But at one time Min was a principal deity of the entire Egyptian empire, with hundreds of thousands worshiping him. Today the modern city of Akhmim is built over the ruins of Min's temple, where excavation only just started in 1991, but ancient sources suggest that statues of him could be 55 feet tall or more, giving the old boy about eight feet of god rod.

On Your Knees:
At Min's temple, worshipers would rub the leaves of the Egyptian lettuce plant (Lactuca serriola), some varieties of which are tall, straight and round, and which would emit a milky white sap.
Yep, they masturbated lettuce.
The sap contained a chemical called lactucarium, which in large doses has an effect on the body similar to cocaine. At the harvest festival each year, naked, geeked-out Egyptians would play various games, the most important of which was climbing a giant pole, with special prizes for anyone who reached the top. We'd have thought the award would go to the person who could climb up and down the poll over and over again in a rhythmic motion, but we didn't write the rules.
#1.
 
The Flaming Thunderbolt
Above is Drukpa Kunley, a 16th century Buddhist Monk who lived in what is now the country of Bhutan, or as he was more commonly known, The Divine Madman. Kunley spent his entire life, after becoming a monk in his late teens, traveling the countryside dispensing his wisdom and enlightenment to as many young ladies as he could get his hands on.
So where's the penis in all this? Well, he promised each of them a path to Nirvana through the use of his "Flaming Thunderbolt." In case you're still confused, here's a picture of it:
Kunley eventually earned such fame that women sought him out, or at least were very willing when he showed up. And in exchange for his spiritual illumination, all of the women were required to pay him in beer.
In between, and during, his deflowering sessions, Kunley would give advice on spiritual peace, how to balance one's karma, and how to attain Buddahood. Kunley preached that sexual ecstasy and drunkenness were the best ways to transcend the illusion of the material world and become one with oneself.
"The best wine lies at the bottom of the pail/And Happiness lies below the navel." A few inches below.

After riding nearly every wife, sister and daughter in the land, Kunley eventually rode into Buddhist mythology itself. He is said to do battle with all sorts of demons and evil spirits, most of them female. In one Bhutanese legend, he defeats a demoness by beating her in the face with his penis, and then gags her with it. After she is defeated, he transforms her into a good spirit "through divine sexual play."
How Big Is It?
It's not the size, it's how you use it. Over 80 percent of Bhutan's 700,000 people are Buddhist, and nearly all of them use images of the Flaming Thunderbolt as a good luck symbol. Images of it are everywhere, most notably painted on the outside of homes and buildings to ward off bad spirits and 'the evil eye.'
On Your Knees:
The best place to become one with your inner Flaming Thunderbolt is at Kunley's Chimi Lhakhang monastery, about a three-hour drive from the capital of Thimphu. There, Monks use a large wooden phallus, carved by Kunley himself, to hit devotees over the head and bless them with it's healing powers.
How this did not become the dominant religion on Earth is impossible to understand.